Сборники Художественной, Технической, Справочной, Английской, Нормативной, Исторической, и др. литературы.



                   (dated September 1, 1993)


Alt.sex.wizards may not receive the amount of traffic that
alt.sex does but a FAQ is always nice to educate the new and
bring new information to the old. This FAQ will concentrate on
sexual technique and wizardry and present the necessary data to
keep wizards healthy and happy. This FAQ does not answer general
sex questions. Please refer to the alt.sex FAQ (see section c0-2
for list of questions answered in the alt.sex FAQ). Readers of
this group have more than enough to read through without having
to filter out inappropriate posts. To help prevent the constant
debating of these points, this post serves as a guide to the
Frequently Asked Questions. If you are new to this group, please
take the time to read through this file, and the alt.sex FAQ,
even if only to read the Table of Contents.

This does not mean these things are not subject to further
debate, merely that they HAVE been considered by the readers
here. If you have something significant to add to the subject,
then feel free to post.

Not every question has a definitive answer. Everyone has
different tastes, preferences, and physical attributes, so it is
nearly impossible to answer certain questions, such as: is a
man's hand or foot size or his height related to his penis size?

There are many sex-related questions that are not answered in
this FAQ. Please refer to section c0-2 for additional sex topics
that are covered in other FAQs, most importantly, the alt.sex

Every effort has been made to keep attributions to authors in
this FAQ file as accurate as possible when available. In many
cases however, the name of the original poster has been lost
through repeated transfers. I have corrected typos and other
errors as I come across them but some slip through, nevertheless.

This FAQ is by no means complete. If you have suggestions as to
changes or additions please email me at:


In order to navigate more easily through this file there are:

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-David Johnson and Snugglebunny

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CHANGES (Sept 1)
- added "What other masturbatory aids are there?".

- updated "Where can I find this FAQ?", "Where can I find
 additional sex topics on USENET?".

- Section about instructional videos for couples.
- Extended section on sexual aids.
- Any suggestions?



Category 0.    Where can I find...?
  c0-1   Where can I find this FAQ?
  c0-2   Where can I find additional sex topics on USENET?

Category 1.    A wizard's materials.
  c1-1   How does one make a simulacrum (artificial orifice)?
  c1-2   What other masturbatory aids are there?

Category 2.    General stuff
  c2-1   Is it possible for men to be multi-orgasmic?
  c2-2   What are Kegel exercises?
         How can one increase the force of ejaculation?
  c2-3   How does one give the Yoni massage?
  c2-4   How does one give the Lingam massage?
  c2-5   What is the Sex Magic Reality Creation Process?
  c2-6   What is the Tantric Polarity Process?
  c2-7   What are some good books on Tantra/sacred sexuality?

Appendix 1.    List of contributors
Appendix 2.    The Teachings of Kama Sutra

See the alt.sex FAQ for more general sex related topics. (See c0-
2 for more details.)


Category 0.    Where can I find...?

c0-1.     Where can I find this FAQ?

    First of all, look for it in alt.sex.wizards and

    If you can't find it there, you can find the (hopefully)
    latest version via ftp at:
    in /pub/usenet/alt-sex-wizards

    By the way: many periodic or FAQ articles, including this
    one, are available for anonymous ftp on the archive site
    rtfm.mit.edu in the directory pub/usenet/news.answers. The
    name under which a FAQ is archived appears is the one that
    appears in the 'Archive-name' line at the top of the

    If you can't do or don't know about ftp: there's also a mail
    server on that machine. Just send an e-mail message to
    mail-server@rtfm.mit.edu containing the word "help" in the
    body of the message.


c0-2.     Where can I find additional sex topics on USENET?

    If you're looking for additional topics on general
    sexuality, look in the alt.sex FAQ (Archive-name:
    alt-sex/faq/part*). The following topics are covered in that

         Alt.sex Terms and Acronyms (also covers terms and
         acronyms for this group)
         What versions of the purity test are there?
         Where can I get the purity tests?
         Where can I find alt.sex stories? are there archive
         sites for them?
         Where can I find GIF pictures?
         What are good books to read up on?
         What stores sell sex-toys, etc.?
         Where can I find the archives for alt.sex.bondage &
         Where can I find the Index to USENET Erotica?
         Where can I order from via catalog?
         Where can I find sex-related mailing lists?
         What should I do to make (the first attempt at) vaginal
         sex easiest?
         What should I do to make (the first attempt at) oral
         sex easiest?
         What should I do to make (the first attempt at) anal
         sex easiest?
         How does one give a hand job?
         What is circumcision and why is it done?
         What is the Venus butterfly?
         What are the contents of semen?
         How much semen and how many sperm are in a single
         Does what I eat affect the taste of semen/vaginal
         What is and where is the G-Spot?
         How can females ejaculate?
         What about oral/vaginal sex during a woman's period?
         What percent of men and women masturbate? and at what
         How are the bases defined again? (ie. 1st base =
         kissing, etc.)
         What's the average length and width penis?
         What's the average depth vagina?
         What can one do about premature ejaculation?
         What are some good positions to try out?
         What is the M-spot?
         What are blue balls?
         Is spanish fly dangerous?
         Is it possible to get pregnant from anal sex?
         Should I buy a vibrator?
         What kind of vibrators are there?
         Do vibrators 'desensitize' women?
         Can I be replaced by a vibrator?
         How to shave your pubic region (female)
         How is the AIDS virus transmitted? and what does a HIV
         test show?
         What is HPV (human papilloma virus)? Treatment?
         The major sexually transmitted disease (STDs) and their
         symptoms (Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Genital Herpes, AIDS,
         Pubic Lice (Crabs), Nonspecific Urethritis (NSU),
         Hepatitis B are covered.)
         What are venereal warts? Treatment?
         What are the various methods of contraception? and
         their effectiveness rates? and their associated risks
         if any?
         What kinds of condoms are there?

    If you're looking for additional information on bondage/
    dominance or sadism/masochism or many other such interesting
    topics, look in the alt.sex.bondage FAQ.

    If you're looking for additional information on masturbation
    techniques, look in the alt.sex.masturbation FAQ.

    By the way: many periodic or FAQ articles, including these
    two, are available for anonymous ftp on the archive site
    rtfm.mit.edu in the directory pub/usenet/news.answers. The
    name under which a FAQ is archived appears is the one that
    appears in the 'Archive-name' line at the top of the

    If you can't do or don't know about ftp: there's also a mail
    server on that machine. Just send an e-mail message to
    mail-server@rtfm.mit.edu containing the word "help" in the
    body of the message.


Category 1.    A wizard's materials:

c1-1.     How does one make a simulacrum (artificial orifice)?

From: "The Contrivor"

Question -     We all know women have vibrators and water
              massagers, but is there any really good (orgasm
              inducing) sex toy for men?

Answer -       Yes, and you can make it yourself. There are
              commercial alternatives as well, but they are not
              very satisfactory. The device described below,
              called "the simulacrum", can be used alone or with
              a partner. It can also be held between the legs of
              a partner, constituting a form of "safer sex".

1.   A piece of foam rubber, approximately 4" x 5" x 6-7".
    Generally, the softer the foam the better. You may want to
    try more than one grade of foam. High quality, soft foam can
    be purchased at a good upholstery fabric store.
2.   A latex, non-lubricated condom. The best brand for this
    application is "Gold Circle Coin".
3.   An O-ring larger than the diameter of the man's penis. The
    average penis is about 1 1/2" in diameter, so the typical O-
    ring might be a 1 3/4 inch inner diameter. A good hardware
    store will have many sizes of O-rings.
4.   A water-based personal lubricant. The best is probably
    "Astroglide". Look in any drug store near the female
    hygiene/contraceptive department.
5.   A wooden clothespin.

1.   Cut a slit through the length of the foam, being very
    careful not to cut yourself. I recommend wearing leather
    gloves and using an electric turkey carving knife. It can be
    done with a sharp knife, but is considerably more difficult.
    Make the slit about 2" wide, going through the whole length
    of the foam. You want plenty of foam all the way around the
    slit, so try to centre it. See the diagram below.

         /.                /|
        / .               / |
  6-7" /  .              /  |
      /   .     _____   /   |
     /    .    .   .   /    |
    /     .___.___.___/_____|
   /     /   .   .   /     /
  -------------------     /
  |    /   .   .    |    /
  |   /   .   .     |   /
4" |  /   -----      |  /
  | /    2" slit    | /
  |/                |/


You may want a wet washcloth available.

1.   Unroll the entire condom.
2.   Bring the open end of the condom through the O-ring, then
    stretch the open end of the condom over the O-ring, the way
    that a plastic trash can liner goes on a trash can.
3.   Lubricate the inside of the condom with a water-based
    lubricant, working the lubricant around to insure that there
    are no dry spots. DO NOT USE skin lotion, vaseline, baby
    oil, vegetable oil, or any oil based lubricant. Use a water
    soluble lubricant such as below:
    - Astroglide personal lubricant
    - Prepare personal lubricant

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From : superdj@binkley.cs.mcgill.ca        2:4790/4        Thu 09 Sep 93 03:19
To   : All                                                 Sun 12 Sep 93 00:46
Subj : (2) [alt.sex.wizards] FAQ (1/2)
X-RealName: David Johnson
    - HR jelly
    - KY jelly
    - Today personal lubricant
4.   Push the closed end of the condom down into the slit in the
    foam. You may find this easier with the wooden clothespin
    already clamped onto the tip of the condom.
5.   Reach through from the other end of the foam and pull the
    closed end of the condom through. Fasten the clothespin on
    this end; If the condom is stretched tight a smooth texture
    will be achieved, if left looser a rougher texture will be
6.   Lubricate the penis with the water-based lubricant. If you
    use an oil based lubricant, the condom will break.
7.   Wipe your hands off on a wet wash cloth.
8.   Insert the penis through the O-ring into the foam slit. You
    may find this difficult if the inside of the condom is not
    fully lubricated, or if the slit is too small. The width of
    the slit will determine the fit. You may wish to vary this
    width to find the perfect fit. Be careful -- too tight and
    you may irritate your penis -- never a good thing!
9.   The foam may be moved with hands, or wedged between pillows,
    or against a bed. It is recommended that the user experiment
    with various speeds, angles, pressures and so on. Slow
    rotation is particularly recommended. It is possible to
    rotate, flex, change the angle of movement etc., in order to
    provide different effects. Also, the amount of lubricant
    used and the tension on the condom before attaching the
    clothespin will affect the texture and sensation achieved.
    Also, a drop or two of honey may be added as a thickening
    agent, to increase the amount of friction.

I'm interested in hearing feedback about the simulacrum. Please
post your feedback to alt.sex.wizards.

- The Contrivor


c1-2.     What other masturbatory aids are there?

From: Snugglebunny (dave@cnd.mcgill.ca)

When it comes to sexuality of all kinds, including self-love,
creativity and imagination is your most important tool.  Look
around your home--there are all kinds of things that can be used
for fun.  Hand-held shower heads to massage with...fabrics with
different textures to run sensuously over bare skin...you get the

One alt.sex.wizards reader wrote:

I had nice experiences with (I do not know the proper expression)
inflatable "air wings", the things you put on children's arms and
inflate to prevent the kid from going under water. You can
inflate as much as you personally like, and they need no
handiwork, just lubrication.

Play around with household items, and, if you have a personal
favourite sex toy, write to me (dave@cnd.mcgill.ca) to share the
idea with other alt.sex.wizards readers!

BTW -     You might find some interesting ideas in the
         alt.sex.masturbation FAQ.


Category 2.    General stuff

c2-1.     Is it possible for men to be multi-orgasmic?

From: sawyer@hubble.westford.ccur.com (George Sawyer)
Keywords: NEMO, Taoist Yoga, Sexual techniques
Message-ID: <62486@masscomp.westford.ccur.com>
Date: 4 Nov 91 16:49:14 GMT

The following is a modified repost of my answer to "Postie's

I study and teach Taoist esoteric yoga, and among the practices
are sexual techniques which are VERY EFFECTIVE. There are solo
techniques, and partner techniques. They require ongoing practice
and, for men, realistically speaking, the partner techniques
require a practising partner.

A basic concept is that you can have an orgasm without
ejaculating. Since ejaculation takes you through the refractory
period & etc. cycle as well as emptying your fluid level, it
tends to limit activity. Remove this constraint and you can go on
as long as you want. (Have as many orgasms as you want). When you
get close to the point of ejaculatory inevitability, you perform
the techniques, which pull the sexual energy out of your testes/
prostate up to your brain & compress the prostate causing partial
loss of erection & subsiding of prostate. When the energy moves
upward, you have an non-ejaculatory orgasm.

The only way I can describe the orgasm experience is to compare
it to some types of psychedelic drug experiences - except that
you are in control and can stop immediately if you want. The more
you practice, the longer and stronger the effects are. An orgasm
of 5 to 10 minutes is "quite easy" and you can become able to
have one of more than an hour with "determined practice". About
an hour twenty minutes is my personal best (from solo practice at
that) and I made it stop because I was getting too high.

You tend to rest for a few or several minutes after each orgasm,
being with your partner, and then optionally doing it again. Use
lots of lubricant.

There are different levels of orgasm, the initial one being a
"senses" orgasm, in which you experience amplified pleasure from
all your senses simultaneously. Since this includes touch, it is
a bodywide experience. An "unexpected" benefit for men is that
you will always have more energy after sex than before, thus
dramatically reducing the "roll off and snore" syndrome. Also,
after sex you will feel much closer to your partner and much more
connected than prior. Many people have intense experiences of
total connection and submersion into each other.

It is also a First Class system for being celibate. Completely
eliminates wet dreams, and gives you a fair amount of choice
about whether to allow yourself to become aroused or not. Over
the long term you develop some degree of control over your sexual
desire in general. Feels great (even the non-aroused solo
practice), and doesn't require "struggle and effort". The non-
aroused solo practices are being done by individuals in many
Christian monasteries & nunneries in Europe.

For men, it only really works if your partner practices too.
Otherwise they get BORED watching you have extended orgasms while
they wait.

Initially, it is QUITE DIFFICULT not to ejaculate, and you will
need cooperation from your partner at the WORST possible times -
"I need to stop NOW!".

It does not work well with promiscuity.

It takes time to learn - I'll say an average of 6 months to
beginning of competence and control, and requires 15min to 30min
per day of various meditative practices.

Realistically, most people don't stick to it long enough to be
able to do it. Success rate among persistent people is very high,
and the practices are not difficult.

Some women find it really weird if you don't ejaculate, and you
can really fuck up your relationship/marriage if you don't take
care of your significant other first and foremost. That is far
more important than mastery of sex techniques.

These techniques are not part of a religion, no Deities to
believe in, no statues, none of that.

The techniques are described quite clearly in:

"Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male sexual energy" (men's)

"Healing Love thru the Tao: Cultivating Female sexual energy"

Both are written by Mantak and Manewan Chia, and widely available
at New Age bookstores.

The pre-requisite is: "Awakening Healing Energy Thru the Tao"

Most people find these reference books a bit much, and take one
day courses. There are about 70 instructors in the USA, you can
find the nearest one by calling the Healing Tao centre @ (516)
367-2701. Classes are about $85, and there is a pre-requisite
course "The Microcosmic Orbit" which is also about $85.


Happy practice!


c2-2.     What are Kegel exercises?
         How can one increase the force of ejaculation?

From: sesharp@happy.colorado.edu
Message-ID: <1991Oct5.231811.1@happy.colorado.edu>
Date: 6 Oct 91 05:18:11 GMT

Kegel exercises (pronounced "Kay-gill", in case you ever actually
have a conversation about them) were invented to give women
better bladder control. They have a number of useful advantages
in sex. In women, they can help tighten the vagina, particularly
after childbirth. The muscles can also be used deliberately
during intercourse to stimulate her partner. They have a variety
of uses for men. As I already mentioned, they strengthen the
muscles used in seminal retention, making that technique more
effective. They can make ejaculation more powerful. This may
increase male enjoyment somewhat and female enjoyment if she is
sensitive to it. Deliberate twitches during intercourse are also
useful for males. Knowing how to force relaxation of the muscles
can help maintain control and prevent premature ejaculation, as
well as relieving the muscle cramps that can occur from too many
ejaculations in succession.

For females:

My recollection of the exercise regimen taken from the older ESO
book is as follows. First you have to identify the PC muscles and
get them under conscious control. Starting and stopping urination
is one method. Inserting a finger into the vagina to feel the
contractions or watching the movement of the erect penis is
another. Once it is under control, there are three kinds of
exercises. The first is to clench the muscle and hold it for two
seconds before releasing it. The second is to bear down as though
constipated, using the abdominal muscles to force the PC muscles
to relax. I find that alternating reps of these two works well.
The third exercise is a fast twitch of the muscle, with
repetitions as close together as possible, similar to orgasmic
contractions. An initial set of exercises consists of 10
repetitions of each exercise. Five sets should be performed in a
day. As strength improves, the number of repetitions in a set is
increased. Around 30 repetitions in a set is suggested as a good
number for retaining good muscle tone. The exercises are
unobtrusive and can be performed almost anywhere.

For males:

Kegel exercises might indeed help with [increasing the force of
ejaculation]. Here is how they are performed by males. First you
have to learn to consciously control the muscles. One way of
doing this is to use them to stop and start urination repeatedly.
When you have an erection, contracting them causes it to move,
making them easy to identify. Once you have the muscles
identified, there are three types of exercises to do:

1)   try contracting the muscles and holding them that way for a
    slow count of ten. You may not be able to last that long at
    first, but that is why you are exercising.
2)   force them to relax by bearing down as though you were
    constipated and trying to force a bowel movement.
3)   twitch (contract and release) the muscles as fast as you can
    ten times in a row. I find that it works well to alternate
    each of the first type with one of the second type. I don't
    recall how many of these are recommended. Something like ten
    of each to start, eventually working up to a hundred.

In addition to the possibility of increasing the force of
ejaculation, these may increase the number of contractions and
the total enjoyment. The same muscles can also be used to reduce
the amount of semen in an ejaculation by contracting them as hard
as possible during it. This leaves a less than satisfied feeling,
usually accompanied by an urgent desire for another orgasm 10 to
20 minutes later. This can be useful if your partner wants more
sex than you do. Supposedly, increasing the strength of the
muscles can increase this effect to allow quite a few orgasms in
a row.


c2-3.     How does one give the Yoni massage?

From: jethro@netcom.com (Jeffery Tye)
Subject: The Yoni Massage

My wife and I have practised Tantra/Sacred Sex for several years
and have received much joy from the techniques and processes. One
of my wife's favourite and frequently requested sexual activity
is the Yoni Massage. It has greatly expanded our sex life,
brought us closer and has given me a greater appreciation of
women. We've taught the technique to many of our friends and they
too have enjoyed good results from it. I offer it here and hope
it enhances your sex life. Enjoy.


Yoni (pronounced YO-NEE) is a Sanskrit word for the vagina that
is loosely translated as "Sacred Space" or "Sacred Temple." Its
meaning and use is an alternate perspective from the Western view
of the female genitals (i.e., Pussy, Cunt, Twat, etc., words
which may or may not be complimentary depending on the intent of
their usage). In Tantra, the Yoni is seen from a perspective of
love and respect. This is especially helpful for men to learn.

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From : superdj@binkley.cs.mcgill.ca        2:4790/4        Thu 09 Sep 93 03:19
To   : All                                                 Sun 12 Sep 93 00:46
Subj : (3) [alt.sex.wizards] FAQ (1/2)
X-RealName: David Johnson

The purpose of the Yoni Massage is to create a space for the
woman (the receiver) to relax, and enter a state of high arousal
and experience much pleasure from her Yoni. Her partner (the
giver) experiences the joy of being of service and witnessing a
special moment. The Yoni Massage can also be used as a form of
safer sex (when latex gloves are used) and is an excellent
activity to build trust and intimacy. Some massage and sex
therapists use it to assist women to break through sexual blocks
or trauma.

The goal of the Yoni massage is not orgasm. Orgasm is often a
pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is simply to pleasure
and massage the Yoni/vagina. From this perspective both receiver
and giver can relax, and not have to worry about achieving
something. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded,
more intense and more satisfying. Orgasm is allowed to happen or
not happen.

It is also helpful for the giver to not expect anything in
return. Just allow the receiver to enjoy the massage and to relax
into herself afterwards. Of course, other sexual activity may
follow but it should be entirely the receiver's choice. This
perspective will build greater intimacy and trust, and will
greatly expand your sexual horizons.


Bathing is always helpful as it relaxes both the receiver and
giver. A quiet space is desirable with pleasing music, candles,
pillows, etc., or whatever makes the participants relax and feel
safe. Allow yourself enough time and do not hurry through the

Go to the bathroom before beginning the massage. The best results
will occur when the bowels and bladder are empty and you will
avoid the unnecessary experience of interrupting the massage to
go to the bathroom.

Connect with your partner by hugging, holding, eye gazing
(looking into each other's eyes for an extended time), or
whatever brings you to a place of safety and relaxation.


Have the receiver lie on her back with pillows under her head so
she can look down at her genitals and up at her partner (giver).
Place a pillow, covered with a towel, under her hips. Her legs
are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or
cushions under the knees will also help) and her genitals clearly
exposed for the massage.

The giver sits cross-legged between the receivers' legs. The
giver may wish to sit on a pillow or cushion. This position
allows full access to the Yoni and other parts of the body.

Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing.
Both giver and receiver should remember to keep breathing deeply,
slowly and with relaxation during the entire process. The giver
will gently remind the receiver to start breathing again if the
receiver stops or takes shallower breaths. Deep breathing, not
hyperventilating, is very important here.

Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc., to get
the receiver to relax and for the giver to prepare for touching
the Yoni.

Pour a small quantity of a high-quality oil or lubricant on the
mound of the Yoni. Pour just enough so that it drips down the
outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. (Several excellent
sexual lubricants are available for this. Many lingerie shops,
sex toy shops, sex magazines, etc., offer these safe lubricants.
My favourite is Yoni Play from Looking Good Enterprises.)

CAVEAT - Do not mix oil-based products with latex.

Begin gently massaging the mound and outer lips of the Yoni.
Spend some time here and do not rush. Relax and enjoy giving the
massage. Gently squeeze the outer lip between the thumb and index
finger, and slide up and down the entire length of each lip. Do
the same thing to the inner lips of the Yoni/vagina. Take your

The receiver can massage her own breasts or may just relax and
continue breathing deeply. It is helpful for giver and receiver
to look into each other's eyes as much as possible. The receiver
can tell the giver if the pressure, speed, depth, etc., needs to
be increased or decreased. Limit your speaking and focus on the
pleasurable sensations. (It is my experience that too much
talking gets one out of their feelings and diminishes the

Gently stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise
circles. Gently squeeze it between thumb and index fingers. Do
this as a massage and not to get the receiver off. The receiver
will undoubtedly become very aroused but continue to encourage
her to just relax and breathe.

Slowly and with great care, insert the middle finger of your
right hand into the Yoni (there is a reason for using the right
hand as opposed to the left. It has to do with polarity in
Tantra). Very gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni/
vagina with this finger. Take your time, be gentle, and feel up,
down and sideways. Vary the depth, speed and pressure. Remember,
this is a massage and you're nurturing and relaxing the Yoni.

With your palm facing up, and the middle finger inside the Yoni,
move the middle finger in a "come here" gesture or crook back
towards the palm. You will contact a spongy area of tissue just
under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris. This is the G-spot or
in Tantra, the sacred spot (there are many excellent books that
go into detail about this area). Your partner may feel as if they
have to urinate or it may be painful or pleasurable. Again vary
the pressure, speed and pattern of movement. You can move side to
side, back and forth, or in circles with your middle finger. You
can also insert the finger that's between your middle finger and
pinky. Check with your partner first before sticking two fingers
into them. Most women should have no problem and will enjoy the
increased stimulation from two fingers. Take your time and be
very gentle. You may use the thumb of the right hand to stimulate
the clitoris as well.

An option to try if the receiver wants it is to insert the pinky
of the right hand into her anus. Ask her first and do not insert
your pinky into her Yoni/vagina after it has been in her anus.
Use lubrication and be very gentle.

(In Tantra, it is said that when your pinky is in her anus, the
next finger and middle finger in her Yoni/vagina, and your thumb
on her clitoris, "You are holding one of the mysteries of the
universe in your hand.")

So, what is your left hand doing all this time? You can use it to
massage the breasts, abdomen, or clitoris. If you massage the
clitoris it's usually best to use your thumb in an up down
motion, with the rest of your hand resting on and massaging the
mound. The dual stimulation of right and left hands will provide
much pleasure for the receiver. I do not recommend using your
left hand to touch your own genitals because it may take your
focus off the receiver. Remember, this massage is for her
pleasure and much of the benefit comes from not only the physical
stimulation but the intent as well.

Continue massaging, trying different speeds, pressures and
motions. Keep breathing and looking into each other's eyes. She
may have powerful emotions come up and may cry. Just keep
breathing and be gentle. Many women have been sexually abused and
need to be healed. A giving, loving and patient partner can be of
great value to her.

If she has an orgasm, keep her breathing, and continue massaging
if she wants. More orgasms may occur, each gaining in intensity.
In Tantra this is called "riding the wave." Many women can learn
how to be multi-orgasmic with the Yoni Massage and a very patient

Keep massaging until she tells you to stop. Very slowly, gently,
and with respect, remove your hands. Allow her to just lay there
and enjoy the afterglow of the Yoni massage. Cuddling or holding
is very soothing as well. As you learn to master the Yoni Massage
your sex life will be greatly enriched and you will learn a great
deal about feminine sexuality.

There is a similar massage for men called the Lingam Massage.
Lingam is a Sanskrit word for the penis that means, "Wand of
Light." (see section c2-4)



c2-4.     How does one give the Lingam massage?

From: jethro@netcom.com (Jeffery Tye)
Subject: The Lingam Massage


The Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ is Lingam (pronounced
LING-AHM, [LING rhymes with sing]) and is loosely translated as
"Wand of Light." Its meaning is different in intention from the
typical Western view of the penis (i.e., Cock, Prick, Dong, Dick,
etc., words that may come from a limited perspective, depending
on the intent of their usage). In Tantra/Sacred Sexuality, the
Lingam is respectfully viewed and honoured, a "Wand of Light"
that channels creative energy and pleasure.

The purpose of the Lingam Massage is to create a space the
receiver to relax, and receive expanded pleasure from his Lingam.
His partner (the giver) experiences the joy of facilitating and
witnessing the man surrendering to his softer, gentler side. The
Lingam Massage can be used as a form of safer sex (when latex
gloves are used) and is an excellent process to build trust and
intimacy. It is often used to help men heal from negative sexual
conditioning and trauma.

Orgasm is not the goal of the Lingam massage although it is often
a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is to massage the
Lingam, also including testicles, perineum and Sacred Spot (the
equivalent to the female G-spot), and allow the man to surrender
to a form of pleasure he may not be used to. From this
perspective both receiver and giver relax into the massage.

Men need to learn to RELAX and RECEIVE. Traditional sexual
conditioning has the man in a doing and goal oriented mode. The
Lingam Massage allows the man to experience his softer, more
receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional


Take a relaxing bath or shower. Take your time and breathe
deeply. Conscious, relaxed breathing will take you out of your
mental process and will get you more into your feelings. Relax
your belly and let go of the tension that most of us hold there.

Go to the bathroom before beginning the massage. The best results
occur when the bowels and bladder are empty.

Let go of your thoughts and connect with your partner through
hugging, holding, eye gazing (looking into each other's eyes for
an extended time), bringing both of you to a place of relaxation
and trust.


Have the receiver lie on his back with pillows under his head so
he can look up at his partner (giver). Place a pillow, covered
with a towel, under his hips. His legs are to be spread apart
with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees
will also help) and his genitals clearly exposed for the massage.

The giver sits cross-legged between the receivers' legs.

Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing.
Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, chest, nipples, etc.,
to get the receiver to relax. Remind the receiver to breathe
deeply and to sink deeper into relaxation.

Pour a small quantity of a high-quality oil (or water-based
lubricant when using latex gloves) on the shaft of the Lingam and
testicles. Begin gently massaging the testicles, taking care to
not cause pain in this sensitive area. Massage the scrotum
gently, causing it to relax. Massage the area above the Lingam,
on the pubic bone. Massage the Perineum, the area between the
testicles and anus. Take your time. You are giving a massage to
an often neglected area of the body.

CAVEAT - Do not mix oil-based products with latex.

Massage the shaft of the Lingam. Vary the speed and pressure.
Gently squeeze the Lingam at the base with your right hand, pull
UP and slide off and then alternate with your left hand. Take
your time doing this, right, left, right, left, etc. Then, change
the direction by starting the squeeze at the head of the Lingam/
penis and then sliding DOWN and off. Again, alternate with right
and left hands.

Massage the head of the Lingam as if you are using an orange
juicer. Massage all around the head and shaft. In Tantra there
are many nerve endings on the Lingam that correspond to other
parts of the body. It is said many ailments can be cured by
receiving a good Lingam Massage.

NOTE:     The Lingam may or may not go soft as you perform this
         technique. Do not worry if it doesn't get hard again.
         You will probably find that it will get hard, then go
         soft, get hard again, etc., which is a highly desirable
         Tantric experience, like riding a wave, bobbing up and
         down. Hardness and Softness are two ends of the

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         pleasure spectrum.

If it appears that the receiver is going to ejaculate, back off,
allowing the Lingam to soften a little before resuming the
massage. Do this several times, coming close to ejaculation, and
then backing off. Remember, the goal is not orgasm in and of
itself. Men can learn the art of ejaculatory mastery and control
by coming close to ejaculation and then backing off on the
stimulation. Deep breathing is key here and will soften the urge
to ejaculate. Eventually ejaculatory mastery will allow you to
make love as long as you want and you can become multi-orgasmic
without losing a drop of semen. Orgasm and ejaculation are two
different responses that you can learn to separate. The result is
a very expanded sex life.

Find and massage the male Sacred Spot. There are two ways to do

One is by finding the spot midway between the testicles and anus.
There is a small indentation about the size of a pea or maybe
larger. Be gentle and push inward. He will feel the pressure deep
inside and it may be intensely painful at first. Eventually, as
this area is worked on and softened, he will be able to expand
his orgasms and master ejaculatory control. You can massage his
Lingam with your right hand and massage his Sacred Spot with your
left hand. Try pushing in on this spot when he nears ejaculation.
It is aptly named the Million Dollar Point in Taoism.

The other way to access the Sacred Spot is through the anus. Many
men, especially heterosexual men, are uncomfortable at first as a
result of negative sexual conditioning. Be careful here and use
lubrication. The key is to go slow and be very gentle. Make sure
he is breathing as you slip a finger from your left hand into the
anus about an inch or so. Then crook the finger back in a "come
here" gesture. You will feel the prostate gland. Vary the
pressure and speed of massage. He may want stimulation of the
Lingam as you massage the Sacred Spot. Back off on the Lingam as
he approaches orgasm and increase the pressure on the Sacred

Sometimes the man may have strong emotions come up during access
to the Sacred Spot. He may cry and remember a traumatic event
from his past. You, the giver, are in a place of trust and
intimacy. Allow him to feel his emotions and be very loving, not
trying to console or fix him, just let him feel whatever he needs
to. Encourage him to scream, cry, moan, sob, if it feels
appropriate. Be the best friend and healer he could have in that


If he chooses to let go and ejaculate, encourage him to breathe
deeply during the orgasm. It will blow his mind, especially if he
has come close and held back at least SIX times before
ejaculating. Holding back six times charges up the sexual battery
with tremendous energy. It is then his choice as to where he
wants to send this energy -- out with their ejaculate (the
prevailing paradigm) or inward for other uses (men who master
ejaculation are able to channel this energy into other areas of
their being).

When he feels complete with the massage gently remove your hands
and allow him to lie there quietly. You may want to snuggle up
together or you can leave the room and let him drift off into a
meditative state. Allow him to fully experience his childlike
innocence and magnificent male beauty.

Have fun with this technique and share it with your friends and
loved ones.



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c2-5.     What is the Sex Magic Reality Creation Process?

From: jethro@netcom.com (Jeffery Tye)
Subject: Sex Magic Reality Creation Process

I want to share something I call the Sex Magic Reality Creation
Process (SMRCP). It is a powerful tool that is appropriate for
deliberate reality creation. As many of you know, I've been
practising Tantra/Sacred Sexuality for many years and have
enjoyed wonderful benefits from it. One of my favourite areas of
study is Sex Magic. I've successfully incorporated the SMRCP in
my reality creation toolbox. It is with much joy that I share it
with you, have some fun with it.


Sex is one of the most (some say THE most) powerful energies on
the planet. To grasp its awesome and often overlooked power, take
a look at the starving Somalis. Take away their food, take away
their dignity, humiliate and torture them and THEY STILL MAKE

Within our loins lies an energy that has the potential to create
ANY reality we want. Unfortunately, most humans have a love/hate
relationship with sex that is reflected in many ways (i.e.,
unsafe promiscuity, self-destructive perversions, denial,
shutdown, religious intolerance, rape, abuse, etc.). Religion has
done much to suppress our divine sexual nature and has kept the
masses ignorant of the potential uses of sexual energy.

When we accept and embrace our sexual nature we are free to use
its awesome power for our benefit. We no longer worship it or
deny it. We come into balance and view our sexuality as part of
our divinity. It becomes joyful, light and loving. We learn to
use sex for more than procreation or sensual gratification.

I want to make a comment about celibacy. Many people, including
so-called enlightened teachers and religious figures,
misunderstand celibacy. True celibacy is not a denial or
suppression of sexual energy. True celibacy is when one chooses
to focus/channel their sexual energy, in non-sexual ways, into
other areas of their being. There are many ways to do this but
Sex Magic is not one of them since it involves sexual
stimulation. Tantra embraces both the sexual path and the
celibate path.

Sex is creative energy. Magic is the art of creating reality.

True magic is simply the art of creating what you want. We can
liken all the processes given to us by masters and teachers
(Seth, Alexander, Abraham, Avatar, etc.), as tools in our
magician's or Shaman's bag. People who consciously and
deliberately create their reality are the ultimate magicians on
the planet.


Sex Magic is based on the belief that the most powerful moment of
human existence is the orgasm. Sex Magic is the art of utilizing
sexual orgasm to create a reality and/or expand consciousness.
All senses and psychic powers are heightened during orgasm. It is
a moment when a window opens to the unlimited abundance of the
unlimited universe.

Now, some may argue that they fantasize about some person or
event during sex and it never materializes into a reality. This
is because most of us, at the moment of orgasm, lose our focus
and get lost in the physical response. That's okay, there's
nothing wrong with using sex for pure pleasure. That intention is
also a created reality. The SMRCP is about maintaining one's
focus during orgasm and channelling the energy into creating a
reality. Any reality, whether it's creating a new job, car,
experience, relationship, etc.


Relax and breathe deeply. Breathing deeply is key to the success
of Sex Magic. Take your time and relax your body, especially your
jaw and belly.

Identify what you want to create. It's important to choose
something that really excites you. Make it specific. You can
write it down or say it out loud as a mantra or affirmation. Make
it in the present tense or as if it's a reality already (i.e., "I
earn $85,000 per year.")

Focus on the creation. See, hear, taste, smell and feel the
creation as if it's real. Visualize yourself in the creation. For
example, what is your life like when you earn that $85,000? What
does it FEEL like? Make it big, in Technicolour, with all your
focus and intention. Breathe into it. Now, when you've identified
the feeling and/or picture that best captures what you want to
create, FILE IT AWAY in your mind and relax. (You may want to
practice a bit with this step before proceeding.)

Do whatever brings you almost to orgasm. This can be masturbation
or sexual activity with a supportive partner. Remember to relax
and breathe into your orgasmic state. Take your time. Bring
yourself almost to orgasm, backing off just before the point-of-
no-return, several or more times. What you're doing here is
charging up the sexual battery.

    I'll digress here for a moment. It's easier for women to do
    this process because orgasm is usually not an energy drain
    for them (as long as they're not engaging in wild, aerobic
    and physically exhausting sex). Women are able to climax
    multiple times ("Riding the Bliss-Wave" in Tantra) gaining
    tremendous energy from it. So, to my sisters, I encourage
    you to relax, breathe, and have fun. It's also very helpful
    to strengthen your PC/vaginal muscle and get in touch with
    your G/Sacred Spot. There are many good books which cover
    this. My favourite is "The Art of Sexual Ecstasy" by Margo
    Anand. I'll do a follow-up post about the "Yoni Massage"
    that you can use with a supportive partner in conjunction
    with the SMRCP.

    The men are another story because their orgasmic energy is
    usually expelled out of their pelvis, in their semen, and
    out of their body. Fortunately this can be handled!
    Unfortunately I won't be able to teach you within the limits
    of USENET and e-mail. I encourage my brothers to learn and
    practice the art of ejaculatory control (I prefer the term
    Ejaculatory Mastery) and create an INjaculation. There are
    several good books about this. Margo Anand's book covers
    this. For the time being, just relax, breathe and come CLOSE
    to ejaculation SIX times before you release your semen. I'll
    follow-up with the "Lingam Massage" that you can use with a
    supportive partner in conjunction with the SMRCP.

When you have almost reached orgasm, after coming close several
times and you're ready to let go, recall from your mind the
reality you want to create and energize it with focused
intention. Make it vivid, exciting, big and beautiful.

When you orgasm, keep focused on the picture/creation and
deliberately channel the orgasm into it. Just let it flow into
the reality you want to create. Remember to keep breathing during
the orgasm and breathe your orgasmic energy into your creation/
goal/dream/reality. Stay focused and hold the picture. Your body
will do the rest (this is why a partner is very helpful -- they
can do the physical work for you :-).

You can repeat the process if you want to come to another orgasm.

The reality will create itself immediately or will be buffered by
time. It may also manifest as an opportunity, insight, healing,
etc. The power of the SMRCP will blow your mind as you master it!
Have fun with your creations.



c2-6.     What is the Tantric Polarity Process?

From: jethro@netcom.com (Jeffery Tye)
Subject: Tantric Polarity Process

I will share another of my favourite Tantra/Sacred Sexuality
processes with you. It is an effective prelude to the Yoni
Massage, the Lingam Massage, the Sex Magic process, or before
other sexual activity. Enjoy.


The intent of Tantric/Sacred Sexuality is to experience and merge
with the Divine (God/Goddess/All-That-Is) using sexual energy as
the fuel or vehicle. Sexual energy is the most powerful force
within the human body and can lead to profound spiritual
experiences accompanied by intense physical pleasure and bliss.
Tantrikas use their sexual energy with awareness, love and
respect, for themselves and their partner.

Tantra views everything as energy, vibrating at different rates
and manifesting in a myriad of ways (e.g., matter, space, time,
forces, people, animals, objects, etc.). Harmony and peace are
the result of energies being in balance -- life flows without
restriction. Often, due to various reasons, the energies that
make up the human body become unbalanced. This results in ill
health, sleeplessness, sluggishness, pain, distraction, and many
other unwanted conditions including unsatisfactory sexual

The goal of the Tantric Polarity Process is to bring the body
into a balanced state before engaging in sexual activity. The
benefits are many, including deep relaxation (important for
Tantric High-Sex), heightened sexual response and better health.
The process builds trust and intimacy between partners, and is
easy to do.

From the Tantric/Yogic perspective there are many energy centres
in the body. The seven primary psychoenergetic vortices are
referred to as Chakras (loosely translated as "Wheels of Light"),
each having a specific function in the body. The most important
one is the Heart Chakra. There are three Chakras above and three
Chakras below the Heart Chakra. The upper three have to do with
intellect and spirituality. The three lower Chakras deal with
base human needs and emotions. The Heart Chakra balances the
Spirit with the flesh. This Chakra is the seat of unconditional
love and divine grace.

(If you aren't already aware of these energy centres or for more
detailed information, I suggest you acquire one of the many
excellent books about the Chakras and Yogic philosophy.
Metaphysical bookstores are a reliable source for these books.
"Wheels of Light" by Anodea is one title to check out.)


Allow 45 minutes for this process. Each step takes about 5
minutes. Allow yourself to relax and take your time. Deep belly
breathing helps with relaxation. A shower or bath is recommended
before this process.

The receiver is to relax, breathe deeply and receive. The giver
is to be of service to their partner. This is an intimate process
done with love and respect. The giver will be placing their hands
on various parts of the receiver's body. This is done SLOWLY,
with awareness, avoiding jerky movements.

The receiver is to be naked, laying flat on their back, with legs
flat and spread comfortably apart. A rolled up towel or pillow
can be placed under the neck for comfort. The receiver may become
cold during the process and they may want to have a light blanket
or sheet placed over their body.

The giver is to sit cross legged, on the RIGHT side of the
receiver, with knees barely touching the receiver's body. The
giver orients themselves in such a way as to be able to reach the
receiver's genitals with the RIGHT hand and the top of the
receiver's head with the LEFT hand. IT IS VERY IMPORTANT for the
giver to find a comfortable position where they WILL NOT HAVE TO
MOVE their body during the process.

Both giver and receiver spend about 5 minutes focusing on deep,
relaxed breathing. THIS IS A VERY IMPORTANT STEP. Begin each
breath with a relaxed belly. Let your thoughts and concerns fade

The GIVER rubs their hands together, creating heat. Shake the
hands, away from the receiver's body, and flick the fingers as if
energy were sparking off your fingers. Do this several times.
Among other things, this energizes your hands and prepares them
for touching the receiver's body.

The giver places their LEFT (negatively charged) hand, gently, on
the receivers Heart Chakra. This is located in the centre of the
chest, between the nipples. You are touching the most intimate
and beautiful part of the receiver. This is their centre and seat
of Divine essence. Become aware of their childlike innocence as
your hand rests here.

The giver places their RIGHT (positively charged) hand, gently on
the receivers Root Chakra. This is located between the anus and
genitals. It is clinically referred to as the Perineum. This is
the foundation of survival and human needs (food, shelter, money,
etc.). It is also the place where a powerful force (Kundalini)
emanates from.

The giver keeps their hands in place for 5 minutes. Just relax,
keep breathing deeply, and visualize powerful energies coming

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streaming out your hands into the receiver's body. Become aware
of your healing powers.

Keeping your LEFT hand on the receiver's heart, gently move your
RIGHT hand to their genitals. If the receiver is a woman, allow
your fingers to contact the clitoris and vulva. If the receiver
is a man, cup your hand over the testicles and penis (Lingam).
This is the seat of their sexual desire and procreative power.
Keep your hands in this position for 5 minutes. Occasionally,
gently rock your RIGHT hand to awaken this Chakra. The receiver
will likely experience sexual arousal. This indicates that energy
is moving in the body.

Move your RIGHT hand to just below the receiver's navel, the
centre of their personal power. Keep your LEFT hand on their
heart Chakra. Do this for 5 minutes.

You are balancing the lower Chakras, that deal with money, sex
and power issues, with their sacred centre, the heart. You are
bringing infinite love and wisdom into their human life form.

Move your RIGHT hand on top of your LEFT hand. Keep both hands on
the receiver's heart for 5 minutes. Imagine all that you have to
give, as friend, healer and lover, flowing from your hands into
their heart.

Place your RIGHT hand on the receiver's heart and move your LEFT
hand to their throat. Be gentle, do not press down and just let
your hand rest gently on the throat Chakra. This is the source of
their creative expression and communication. Remain here for 5

With the RIGHT hand in place on the receiver's heart, move the
LEFT hand to their forehead. This is the home of their intellect
and psychic powers. Remain at this centre for 5 minutes.

Move the LEFT hand to the top or crown of the receiver's head.
Keep the RIGHT hand on their heart. The Crown Chakra is their
connecting point to the Divine and channels spiritual energy.
Stay in this position for 5 minutes.

Gently, slowly and with total awareness, remove your hands from
the receiver's body. At this point they will most likely be in a
deeply relaxed and highly sensitized state. Withdraw your hands
in a manner that they barely notice it. Slowly, silently, move
your body away from theirs and stand up. Walk away from them,
shake your hands, and flick your fingers again.

You may leave them in this state (lucid dreaming or meditative)
or you can begin another sexual activity. The Lingam Massage or
Yoni Massage is most effective after this process. Foreplay,
including cunnilingus or fellatio, works very well, as the
receiver is in a heightened state of responsiveness at this
point. Have fun!



c2-7.     What are some good books on Tantra/sacred sexuality?

From: jethro@netcom.com (Jeffery Tye)
Subject: Books on Tantra/Sacred Sexuality

Most westerners use the word "Tantra" to cover sacred and
enhanced sexuality. Tantra, as practised in the West, referred to
as "neo-Tantra", borrows from many traditions including Taoism,
Hindu Tantra, Native American Quodoshka, African, Polynesian,
Wiccan, Christian Gnosticism, etc. Real "Tantra" is a rigorous
spiritual discipline and vast field of study -- the sexual aspect
is a small but important part of it. Mystical experiences and
altered states of consciousness result from many of the
processes, especially the ones dealing with sexual energy.

Many of you have e-mailed me for a list of good Tantric/Sacred
Sexuality books. There are many good works to choose from. It
depends on your tastes and interests. I have compiled a short
list of titles that I feel give a good overview of Tantric/High
sex and provide practical processes and techniques. They can be
found at many meta-physical bookstores or can be easily ordered
through most bookstores.

I consider the first three books as "must-haves" for anyone
interested in enhancing their sex life.

    "The Art of Sexual Ecstasy" by Margo Anand. One of my
    favourites! Buy this book! She presents the information and
    techniques in a way that is palatable to westerners. Her
    workshops are wonderful too!

    "Sexual Energy Ecstasy (revised version)" by David and Ellen
    Ramsdale. This is a great, great book, chock full of
    techniques and processes. It is worth its weight in gold and
    will delight you over and over.

    "Sexual Secrets" by Nik Douglas and Penny Slinger. A
    treasure trove of information about sacred sexuality and
    esoteric practices. It is filled with great illustrations
    and photos. Makes a good coffee-table book to delight your

    "The Encyclopedia of Erotic Wisdom" by Rufus Camphausen. A
    wonderful reference book to have in your library. It
    contains esoteric and little known information about ancient
    rituals and symbols. It will entertain you for hours and

    "Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving" by Charles and
    Caroline Muir. A fine beginner's book and compelling
    argument for Tantra. Their workshops are highly recommended.
    They have a lovely new video out.

    "Sacred Orgasms" by Kenneth Ray Stubbs. He uses poetry and
    illustration to capture the flavour of sacred sexuality. It
    challenges the western paradigm of orgasm. This is a great
    book by a great man.

    "Jewel in The Lotus" by Sunyata Saraswati. This book gets
    into moving sexual energy in the body. Sunyata taught most
    of the western Tantra teachers and is a master.

I recommend the magazines, "Tantra: The Magazine" and "Ecstasy
Journal" for anyone interested in learning more about the
Tantric/Sacred Sexuality movement. The artwork is exquisite and
they work hard at turning out quality journals. Call them to
order a subscription.

    "Tantra: The Magazine" 505/384-2292.
    "Ecstasy Journal" 805/646-5709

Have fun!



Appendix 1.    List of Contributors

(NOTE:    If you find something you've written which is not
         attributed properly, tell me!)

The first contributor has to be Tony Chen. Thank you Tony.
dave@cnd.mcgill.ca (Snugglebunny)
elf@halcyon.com (Elf)
jethro@netcom.com (Jeffery Tye)
sawyer@hubble.westford.ccur.com (George Sawyer)
sesharp@happy.colorado.edu (Steven Sharp)
(The Contrivor)


Appendix 2.    The Teachings of Kama Sutra (with some extra

               The Love Teachings of Kama Sutra
                        By Vatasyayana
                 Excerpts from the Kama Sutra.

          Source: "The Love Teachings of Kama Sutra"


Lying Down Positions:

Indrani draws up both her knees
until they nuzzle the curves of her breasts;
her feet find her lover's armpits.
Small girls love this posture,
but becoming a goddess takes a lot of practice.

She cups and lifts her buttocks with her palms,
spreads wide her thighs,
and digs in her heels besides her hips,
while you caress her breasts:
this is "Utphallaka" (The Flower in Bloom).
Grasping the ankles
of the round hipped woman, whose buttocks
are like two ripe gourds,
raise her beautiful thighs
and spread the thigh-joints widely.

Full of desire, saying sweet words,
approach her with your body stiff as a pole
and drive straight forward
to pierce her lotus and join your limbs:
experts call it "Madandhvaja" (The Flag of Cupid).

Catch hold of her two feet,
raising them till they press upon her breasts
and her legs form a rough circle.
Clasp her neck and make love to her:
this is "Ratisundara" (Aphrodite's Delight).

Lift the lady's feet until her soles
lie perfectly parallel,
one to each side of her slender throat,
cup her breasts and enjoy her:
this technique is "Uthkanta" (Throat-high).

Your lovely wife, lying on the bed,
grasps her own feet
and draws them up until they reach her hair;
you catch her breasts and make love:
this is "Vyomapada" (Sky-foot).

The round-thighed woman on the bed
grasps her ankles and raises high her lotus feet;
you strike her to the root, kissing
and slapping open-palmed between her breasts:
this is "Markata" (The Monkey).

She lies flat on her back,
you sit between her parted knees, raise them,
hook her feet over your thighs,
catch hold of her breasts, and enjoy her:
this is "Manmathpriya" (Dear to Cupid).

Lying-down Positions - Samputa Group:

If your penis is too small for a woman,
the "Samputa" group of postures should be used:
"Samputa" (the Jewel Case),
"Pidita" (the Squeeze), "Veshtita (the Entwined)
and "Vadavaka" (the Mare's Trick).

In Samputa your legs lie along hers
caressing their whole length from toes to thighs.
Your lover may be below you,
or you may both lie on your sides,
in which case she should always be on your left.

In Pidita the lovers' thighs
are interlaced and squeeze each other in rhythm.
In Veshtita she crosses her thighs
or rolls each one inward,
thus greatly strengthening her yoni's grip.

When, like a mare cruelly gripping
a stallion, your lover
traps and milks your penis with her vagina,
it is "Vadavaka" (the Mare's Trick),
which can only be perfected with long practice.

When she uses it, a woman
should cease to kiss her lover
and simply hold the lock.
Courtesans are adept at Vadavaka,
and it's a speciality with ladies from Andhra(*).

    *The South-Eastern state of India.

When lovers, with legs stretched rigid
and feet caressing feet,
make love according to their hearts' desire,
"tantra" scholars call it "Sampada" (Equal Feet)
and agree it is a way to ecstasy.

Stiff as a pole in the bed's centre,
she lies making love,
cooing and warbling like a woodpigeon,
the jewel of her clitoris well-polished:
this is Mausala" (the Pestle).

When she lies on her back
with her two thighs pressed tightly together
and you make love to her,
keeping your thighs outside hers,
it is "Gramya" (the Rustic).

If, encircling and trapping
her thighs with yours,
you grip so hard that she cries out in pain,
it is "Ratipasha" (Love's Noose),
a device most charming to the ladies.

Her limbs, entwined in yours
like tendrils of fragrant jasmine creeper,
draw taut and slowly relax
in the gentle rhythm of linga and yoni:
this is "Lataveshta" (the Clinging Creeper).

She draws her limbs together,
clasping her knees tightly to her breasts,
her yoni, like an opening bud,
offered up for pleasure:
this is known as "Mukula" (the Bud).

When she draws up her knees
and you clamp yours about her raised thighs,
trapping them in a tight knot
while riding saddle upon her buttocks
and kissing her, it is "Shankha" (the Couch).

Oral Pleasures -- Fellatio Techniques:

When your lover catches your penis
in her hand and, shaping
her lips to an 'O', lays them lightly to its tip,
moving her head in tiny circles,
this first step is called "Nimitta" (Touching).

Next, grasping its head in her hand,
she clamps her lips tightly about the shaft,
first on one side then the other,
taking great care that her teeth don't hurt you:
this is "Parshvatoddashta" (Biting at the Sides).

Now she takes the head of your penis
gently between her lips,
by turns pressing, kissing it tenderly
and pulling at its soft skin:
this is "Bahiha-samdansha" (the Outer Pincers).

If next she allows the head to slide
completely into her mouth
and presses the shaft firmly between her lips,
holding a moment before pulling away,
it is "Antaha-samdansha" (the Inner Pincers).
When, taking your penis in her hand
and making her lips very round,
she presses fierce kisses along its whole length,
sucking as she would at your lower lip,
it is called "Chumbitaka" (Kissing).

If, while kissing, she lets her tongue
flick all over your penis
and then, pointing it, strikes repeatedly
at the sensitive glans-tip,
it becomes "Parimrshtaka" (Striking at the Tip).

And now, fired by passion, she takes
your penis deep into her mouth,
pulling upon it and sucking as vigorously
as though she were stripping clean a mango-stone:
this is "Amrachushita" (Sucking a Mango).

When she senses that your orgasm
is imminent she swallows up the whole penis,
sucking and working upon it
with lips and tongue until you spend:
this is "Sangara" (Swallowed Whole).

Oral Pleasures -- Cunnilingus Techniques:

With delicate fingertips,
pinch the arched lips of her house of love
very very slowly together,
and kiss them as though you kissed her lower lip:
this is "Adhara-sphuritam" (the Quivering Kiss).
Now spread, indeed cleave asunder,

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that archway with your nose and let your tongue
gently probe her "yoni" (vagina),
with your nose, lips and chin slowly circling:
it becomes "Jihva-bhramanaka" (the Circling Tongue).

Let your tongue rest for a moment
in the archway to the flower-bowed Lord's temple
before entering to worship vigorously,
causing her seed to flow:
this is "Jihva-mardita" (the Tongue Massage).

Next, fasten your lips to hers
and take deep kisses
from this lovely one, your beloved,
nibbling at her and sucking hard at her clitoris:
this is called "Chushita" (Sucked).

Cup, lift her young buttocks,
let your tongue-tip probe her navel, slither down
to rotate skilfully in the archway
of the love-god's dwelling and lap her love-water:
this is "Uchchushita" (Sucked Up).

Stirring the root of her thighs,
which her own hands
are gripping and holding widely apart,
your fluted tongue drinks at her sacred spring:
this is "Kshobhaka" (Stirring).

Place your darling on a couch,
set her feet to your shoulders, clasp her waist,
suck hard and let your tongue stir
her overflowing love-temple:
this is called "Bahuchushita" (Sucked Hard).

If the pair of you lie side by side,
facing opposite ways,
and kiss each other's secret parts
using the fifteen techniques described above,
it is known as "Kakila" (the Crow).

Role Reversal:

During lovemaking, ten types of blows
may be struck with the penis,
but of these only "Upasripta" (Natural),
which is instinctive even to untutored cowherds,
results in full clitoral stimulation.
It is a gentle forward stroke
which may be varied for depth and speed,
allowing a subtlety, rhythm
and spontaneity which
the other nine each lack to some degree.

If you grasp your penis and move it
in circles inside her yoni,
it is "Madhavana" (Churning).
When you strike sharply down into the yoni,
it is "Hula" (the Double-edged Knife).

If, when her hips are raised by a pillow,
you strike a rising blow,
it is "Avamardana" (Rubbing).
If you hold your penis pressed breathlessly
to her womb it is "Piditaka" (Pressing).

If you withdraw completely
and then strike her violently to the womb,
it is "Nirghata" (the Buffet).
Continuous pressure on one side of her yoni
is "Varahaghata" (the Boar's Blow).

If you thrust wildly in every direction,
like a bull tossing its horns,
it is "Vrishaghata" (the Bull's Blow).
Quivering in her yoni is "Chatakavilasa" (Sparrow Sport),
which usually heralds orgasm.

The involuntary shuddering of orgasm
is called "Samputa" (the Jewel Case).
But no two women make love quite the same way,
so orchestrate your rhythms
to the moods and colours of each lover's "raga" (emotions).

If long lovemaking exhausts you
before your lover has reached her orgasm,
you should allow her
to roll you over your back
and sit astride you, taking initiative.

If the posture gives her deep pleasure,
or you enjoy its novelty,
she may transpose into it as a matter of course,
taking great care, however,
not to expel the linga from the temple of love.

Consider: she climbs upon you,
the flowers dropping from her tousled hair,
her giggles turning to gasps;
every time she bends to kiss your lips
her nipples pierce your chest.

As her hips begin to churn,
her head, flung back, bobs ever faster;
she scratches, pummels you with small fists,
fastens her teeth in your neck,
doing unto you what you've often done unto her.

When she takes the man's role,
your lady has the choice
of three famous lovemaking techniques:
"Samdamsha (the Tongs),
"Bhramara" (the Bee) and "Prenkholita" (the Swing).

If she uses the Mare's Trick,
gripping your penis with her yoni's vice,
squeezing and stroking it,
holding it inside her for a hundred heart-beats,
it is known as "Samdamsha" (the Tongs).
If, drawing up her feet,
she revolves her hips so that your penis
circles deep within her yoni,
you arching your body to help her,
it is "Bhramara" (the Bee).

If she now swings her hips
in wide circles and makes figures-of-eight,
swaying upon your body
as though she were riding on a seesaw,
it is "Prenkholita" (the Swing).

When her passion has ebbed,
she should rest, bending forward to lay
her forehead upon yours
without disturbing your yoked bodies:
it won't be long before desire stirs again.

Catching your penis, the lady
with dark eyes like upturned lotus petals
guides it into her yoni,
clings to you and shakes her buttocks:
this is "Charunarikshita" (Lovely Lady in Control).

Enthroned on your penis,
she places both hands on the bed
and makes love, while you
press your two hands to her thudding heart:
this is "Lilasana" (Seat of Sport).

She sits upright upon you,
her head thrown back like a rearing mare,
bringing her feet together
on the bed to one side of your body:
this is "Hansabandha" (the Swan).

The young woman has one foot
on your heart and the other on the bed.
Bold, saucy women adore this posture,
which is known to the world
as "Upavitika" (the Sacred thread).

If, with one of her feet
clasped in your hand
and the second placed upon your shoulder,
your young lady enjoys you,
it is "Viparitaka" (Reversed).

If your lover, seated above you
with feet lotus-crossed
and her body held erect and still
makes love to you,
it is known as "Yugmapada" (the Foot Yoke).

If she strides you,
facing your feet,
brings both her feet up to your thighs,
and works her hips frantically,
it is known as "Hansa-lila" (Swan Sport).

Your lover places one foot
on your ankle, lodges
her other foot just above your knee,
and rides you, swinging and rotating her hips:
this is "Garuda" (Garuda).

If you lie flat on your back
with legs stretched out
and your lover sits astride you, facing away
and grasping your feet,
it is called "Virsha" (the Bull).
Clasping each other's hands,
you lie sprawled like two starfish making love,
her breasts stabbing your chest,
her thighs stretched out along yours:
this is "Devabandha" (the Coitus of the Gods).

Lying upon you, your beloved
moves round like a wheel,
pressing hands one after the other on the bed,
kissing your body as she circles:
experts call this "Chakrabandha" (the Wheel).

If, by means of some contraption,
your lover suspends herself above you,         **********
places your linga in her yoni                  **********
and pulleys herself up and down upon it,       **********
it is "Utkalita" (the Orissan).**              **********

** I must admit that this is kind of far fetched. However, there
  is an illustration on the next page depicting this position
  and showing two women pulling the woman up.

           FOR IT.

To Enslave a Lover:

Anoint your penis, before lovemaking,
with honey into which
you have powered black pepper,
long pepper and "datura" (the green thorn apple) -
it will utterly devastate your lady.

Leaves caught as they fall from trees
and powdered with peacock-bone
and fragments of a corpse's winding-sheet
will, when dusted lightly
on the penis, bewitch any woman living.

If you crush milky chunks of cactus
with sulphur and realgar,
dry the mixture seven times, powder it
and apply it to your penis,
you'll satisfy the most demanding lover.

And if, to these powerful ingredients,
you add a monkey's turd,
grind them together and sprinkle the powder
on your unsuspecting lover's head,
she will be your devoted slave for life.

To Increase Potency:

Honey-sweetened milk in which
the testicles of a ram
or a goat have been simmered
has the effect, when drunk,
of making a man as powerful as a bull.

Pumpkin seeds ground with almonds
and sugarcane root,
or with cowhage root and strips of bamboo,
and stirred into honeyed milk,
have the same arousing effect.

The sages say that wheat-flour cakes
baked with honey and sugar
and sprinkled with the powdered seeds
of pumpkin and cowhage
give one strength for a thousand women.

The yolk of a single sparrow's egg
stirred into rice pudding
that has been thickened with cream,
wild-honey and "ghee" (clarified butter)
has the same invigorating effect.

Enlarging the Penis or "Yoni" (Vagina):

First rub your penis with wasp stings
and massage it with sweet oil.
When it swells, let it dangle for ten nights
through a hole in your bed,
going to sleep each night on your stomach.

After this period use a cool ointment
to remove the pain and swelling.
By this method men ... of insatiable
sexual appetite, manage to keep
their penises enlarged throughout their lives.

By applying an ointment made from
crushed barleria leaves
to her "yoni", the elephant(HASTHINI or large) woman
can spend at least one night
discovering the delights of being a doe ("small" woman).

Likewise the doe can use honey
mixed with powdered roots
of lotus, madder, "sal" (tree of aromatic gum),
the blue lotus and the mongoose plant
to accommodate a stallion for one night.

To Cope With Impotence:

A man who climaxes too swiftly
should arouse his lady
by caressing her clitoris with his fingers
and flooding the well
of her yoni before he enters her.

If, during lovemaking, the erection
cannot be sustained because
the man is old, or simply exhausted
he should use the delicate
oral techniques given in an earlier chapter.

The man who is utterly unable
to achieve an erection
should pleasure his wife/lover with a phallus
crafted from materials like
gold, silver, copper, iron (!!), ivory or horn.

The artificial phallus should be shaped
to your natural proportions.
It will be more arousing for the lady
if the outside is studded
with a profusion of large, smooth nodules.

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